HAPPY BESDAY UWA

'Happy Besday Uwa, Happy Besady Uwa, Happy Besday, Happy Besday, Happy Besday Uwa".Selamat Ulangtahun Kelahiran Mak. Wanita yang terlalu banyak berkorban untuk saya dari saya dilahirkan hingga ke saat ini. Saya sentiasa mendoakan agar Allah swt memberi kebaikan yang melimpah ruah kepada mak saya. Jangan tak tahu, mak saya "terpaksa" menemani saya di labour room menyaksikan saya melahirkan puteri saya yang kedua;Khadijah Safiyya. 

DEDIKASI AISHAH, SELEPAS 3 BULAN

Diam tak diam hampir 3 bulan Aishah tak jumpa ayah.Dah lama Aishah tak tengok kakak, kakak tua,dan rusa (tempat yang biasa dibawa oleh ayah pada waktu petang).Dan sudah jarang Aishah ke masjid menemani ayah bersolat jemaah di sana.Raya Haji lepas, Uwa bawa Aishah pergi masjid. Aishah seronok sangat bertakbir raya.

Aishah memang rapat dengan ayah sebab ummi opppssss agak garang, eh tegas sebenarnya. Ummi paling tak suka Aishah sepahkan barang-barang mainan Aishah yang banyak tu.( Sekarang ummi dah buat satu sudut khas untuk letak mainan Aishah sahaja).

Aishah kadang-kadang tengok ayah dalam lap top ummi (gambar-gambar ayah). Kadang-kadang dengar suara ayah dan dapat tengok gambar ayah bergerak-gerak. Aishah sebenarnya memang nak cakap banyak dengan ayah bila ayah skype (hehehe nak mengadu apa Ummi dah buat pada Aishah opsss) cuma Aishah leka melihat ayah bergerak-gerak di skrin lap top ummi.

Aishah kadang-kadang tahu ummi sedang "ym" dengan ayah sebab nampak gambar ayah kecil sahaja.Tapi biasanya ummi tak bagi Aishah tumpang sekaki.Ummi takut lap top dia rosak, Ummi kata; jika rosak, kita tak dapat nak cakap dengan ayah lagi. kadang-kadang Ummi saja bagi alasan "ayah tak ada, ayah mandi, ayah nak pergi belajar, nanti ayah dah ada kita suruh ayah telefon ye". Jadi bila ada sesiapa pun tanya Aishah ayah mana? Aishah akan jawab" ayah madi, ayah blaja dan ayah tak dek".

Eidul Adha lepas,wan Rembau dan mak ngah datang tengok bibi@adik. Wan kata Aishah debab. Mak ngah kata Aishah dah tak ada tukang sikat lagi..Ayah lah, ayah kan selalu sikat rambut Aishah. pantang kusut sikit. Tapi Ummi tak selalu buat macam tu..Ummi kata rambut Aishah tak ada jalan,bersimpang siur.Jadi, baru-baru ni Ummi gunting rambut Aishah. Tak cantik langsung.

16 hb lepas hari lahir Uwa. Aishah dah boleh nanyikan "Happy To you" pada Uwa macam lagu dalam CD ayah beli tu.juga sudah boleh berzikir "La Ila Ha'ilallah" seperti dalam Astro Oasis tu. Aishah juga dah pandai sebut perkataan. Ummi kata, Aishah can address the words at the right place walaupun the said words Ummi tak pernah ajar pun.Ummi juga ada beli colour pencils,buku mewarna dan mini whiteboard untuk Aishah.Aishah minta Ummi tulis ABC.Kemudian Aishah padam, dan minta Ummi tulis lagi, padam dan tulis lagi.Pening kepala Ummi.

Cepat masa berlalu, tak sedar ayah tak ada di sini. Sebab Aishah sudah ada kawan.Adik. Aishah sayang adik. Aishah selalu cium adik. Aishah juga kokong dan dudui adik (off course dengan bantuan Ummi, kalau tak menjerit-jeritlah Ummi)Aishah sekarang rajin tolong Ummi.Tolong Ummi buangkan pampers adik, masukkan baju kotor Aishah dan adik dalam bakul,Ummi kata Aishah boleh diharap.Yelah, Aishah pun tolong Ummi sidai dan angkat kain juga menyapu (but on my own way lah).

Sekarang ni Aishah jadi co-pilot ummi jika Ummi drive. Dulu kan Aishah jadi co-pilot ayah.Ummi selalu juga bawa Aishah keluar jika tak pergi tempat yang jauh-jauh. Ummi kata nak spend masa dengan Aishah. Hanya kami berdua.Sebab masa Ummi mengandung Adik, Ummi tak berkesempatan nak spend masa dengan Aishah. Katanya tak larat.

Ummi ada juga bawa Aishah pergi program ABIM, NS. Aishah suka pergi. Lebih-lebih lagi bila ada kawan-kawan sebaya Aishah.Baru-baru ni Aishah teman Ummi buat medical check up. Ummi kata Aishah bijak sebab dah kenal nombor.Alah, Ummi je yang tak tahu, Aishah selalu bilang nombor di bank, sebab setiap bulan Aishah ikut Uwa ke Bank keluarkan duit pencen.

Alahai, tak lama lagi Ummi nak "work". Aishah dah tak boleh mengekor Ummi lagi. Ummi kadang-kadang terjengket-jengket keluar tak nak bagi Aishah bangunlah tu.Tapi, Aishah dengarlah bunyi enjin kereta Ummi.Tapi tak apa. Kata Ummi, kali ini Ummi "work" tak seteruk dulu. Ummi akan ada banyak masa untuk Aishah dan Adik. Mestilah suka macam tu, sebab sekarang Ummilah Umi dan juga ayah sementara Aishah untuk jangkamasa setahun je. Dan Aishah akan selalu ingat pesan ayah, supaya selalu bantu Ummi kerana Aishah kini seorang kakak.

 

Lori tangki minyak rempuh rumah, 3 maut

KUALA KLAWANG: Dua beradik rentung selepas rumah mereka hangus terbakar akibat dirempuh sebuah lori tangki minyak yang terbabas sebelum meletup di Kampung Ulu Klawang, Batu 18 Jalan Seremban-Jelebu, dekat sini semalam.

Mayat Mohd Hafiz Hanapiah, 7, dan kakaknya, Anisah, 15, ditemui dalam keadaan bertindih, manakala pemandu lori, Samsulkahar Bahudin, 36, berasal dari Melaka, turut terbunuh dalam kejadian kira-kira jam 8.39 pagi itu. http://www.bharian.com.my/

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SAD & TRUE STORY

Written by Dr. Sharifah Khaidah Syed Sahab
( one of my Doctor friend).

I'm launching my blog today on my 44th day of confinement  and I like to share the following story as my first entry.The story below is really touching my heart and may Allah preserve my kids and all the children out there from all the bad deeds and doings. Nauzubillah.......

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

This is a true story of Jati, a story of a very innocent gurl, who eventually passed away at a very young age.

She lived in a rural area, in a remote place far away in the Sarawak province. She stayed in a 'rumah panjang' together with her parents and other siblings, mixing with the other neighbours' family as well. She has got so many brothers n sisters below her, and being the eldest child, she was given the responsibility to take care of her siblings.

The story began when she was allegedly raped at the age of 14 by an Atuk, whose age around 70+ and was also staying inside the rumah panjang. The parents felt so embarrased with the incident, and to maintain the dignity of the family, they forced the innocent daughter to marry the old man. No one has ever reported the incidence to the respected bodies. Finally, she was blessed with a child resulted from the unwilling and unwanted marriage. Now then she has to take care of a baby, on top of her own siblings and not forgetting the old 'baby' who was the culprit of all the things that happen.

She got tired as the day went by, and being a small child, she was not even prepared for that. When her baby reached the age of 6 months, she was again surprised to find out that she was pregnant for the 2nd time. Being so naive about contraception, she didnt know what to do with this unwanted pregnancy. She was already tired with the life that she was going through. No one would ever help her out, what more to share the tears with her. She finally went to see her mom, and told her that she would not want to continue with this pregnancy, as she was already overburdened with a growing baby, the old man as well as her other siblings. Things has been put on her shoulder alone, and she couldnt bear with it anymore.

Her mom unfortunately brought her to see a traditional healer, which took her 3 hours to get there from her rumah panjang. Sad for her, that actually the mom should have brought her to see the nearest nurse who was in charge of the klinik desa there, which also took her 3 hours to get there. It is understood that any form of abortion is considered as illegal in this country. The procedure of abortion was done in a completely nonsterile technique, whereby fish bones were inserted into her womb. She was crying in pain... And unfortunately her sufferings did not end there just like that.

She was down with high grade fever several days after, and no one cared for her including the old man. At one time she was so critically ill, and that was the time where the mother finally brought her for medical attention. Only this time she knew where to bring her daughter, who was so ill. They went to see the nurse, and as I said, it took her 3 hours to get there by boat. Upon arrival, she was so ill that the nurse decided to transfer her to the nearest hospital. They went there using boat 'ambulance' bcoz that was the only mean of transportation that can be used there.

Unfortunately, God loved her more that she eventually passed away on the boat in the middle of her journey to seek help at the hospital. She passed away only at the age of 15. For all the sacrifices that she has done for the whole family, may God place her in the best place of heaven.